Sunday, January 6, 2013
Six Fraternal World Predictions for 2013
Saturday, January 5, 2013
2012: Worst Year Ever for Greek Organizations?
In my time as a campus-based professional, I can’t remember a year that was worse for negative publicity centered on fraternities and sororities. Thus, I present 51 reasons why 2012 may have been the worst year ever for fraternities and sororities:
Hazing Beyond the Frat House: http://www.insidehighered.com/news/2011/12/23/florida-am-death-illuminates-prevalence-non-greek-hazing
Hazing Alleged at Jacksonville State: http://www.annistonstar.com/view/full_story/16927474/article-Hazing-alleged-at-Jacksonville-State-fraternity
3 Different Fraternities found Guilty at EKU for Hazing: http://www.wkyt.com/home/headlines/Hazing_at_EKU_results_in_three_fraternity_suspensions_137309593.html
Texas State Fraternity Chapter loses Charter: http://star.txstate.edu/node/5103
TKE will lose Recognition After Reported Hospitalization: http://cornellsun.com/section/news/content/2012/01/19/tke-will-lose-recognition-after-reported-hospitalization
Cocaine, Drugs and Money seized at EWU frat brother’s off-campus party: http://www.kxly.com/news/30246102/detail.html
University Revokes Two Greek Charters over the Break: http://www.diamondbackonline.com/news/university-revokes-two-greek-charters-over-break-1.2749919
Student Accuses Frat of Hazing: http://thedartmouth.com/2012/01/25/news/hazing
SUU’s Sigma Nu Suspended After Hazing Incident: http://www.thespectrum.com/article/20120121/NEWS01/201210314/1002/rss
Delta Gamma Faces Investigation: http://www.cavalierdaily.com/2012/01/20/delta-gamma-faces-investigation/
Dartmouth SAE Accused of Hazing: http://thedartmouth.com/2012/01/25/news/hazing
UC-Berkeley Zeta Phi Beta Pledge Accuses Sorority of Hazing: http://blogs.sfweekly.com/thesnitch/2012/02/uc_berkeley_zeta_phi_beta.php
Univ. of Florida suspends Alpha Phi Alpha for “Serious Physical Hazing Incident”: http://www.cnn.com/2012/02/08/us/university-of-florida-hazing-suspension/index.html
Youngstown State U. suspends Kappa Alpha Psi, probes hazing: http://www.vindy.com/news/2012/feb/09/ysu-suspends-fraternity-and-probes-alleg/
3 Vanderbilt SAEs face charges in Sigma Nu theft: http://wkuherald.com/news/article_03272d98-537a-11e1-ab42-0019bb30f31a.html
UD Fraternity center of Hazing Investigation: http://www.wdtn.com/dpp/news/ud-fraternity-center-of-hazing-investigation
Colorado State’s KKG sorority suspended for hazing: http://www.collegian.com/index.php/article/2012/02/colorado_state039s_kappa_kappa_gamma_sorority_suspended_for_hazing
Three Arrested in MSU Kidnapping: http://www.cdispatch.com/news/article.asp?aid=15912#ixzz1o4JzgJd8
Univ. of Florida Kappa Alpha Psi recruits hit with canes:
http://www.alligator.org/news/campus/article_dd502964-7244-11e1-8399-0019bb2963f4.html
Boston Univ. Sorority Suspended for Possible Hazing: http://boston.cbslocal.com/2012/03/20/boston-university-sorority-suspended-for-possible-hazing/
Princeton Bans freshman participation in Greek activities: http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/2012/03/26/30348/
Confessions of an Ivy League Frat Boy: Inside Dartmouth’s Hazing Abuses: http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/news/confessions-of-an-ivy-league-frat-boy-inside-dartmouths-hazing-abuses-20120328
Sigma Chi’s Alpha Chapter at Miami U. Closed: http://news.cincinnati.com/article/AB/20120409/NEWS/304090013/MU-frat-house-ordered-closed
Violent Hazing by fraternity sisters’ has former PSU student seeking justice: http://www.whptv.com/news/local/story/Violent-hazing-by-fraternity-sisters-has-former/klxKuF7PrkyL-plsfotnxA.cspx?rss=50
SDSU places Phi Kappa Theta on Interim Suspension while SAE President Death Investigated: http://www.utsandiego.com/news/2012/apr/25/fraternity-where-student-died-suspended/
Cornell suspends Fraternity over Racial Insults: http://www.ithacaindy.com/201205081144/Cornell/Cornell-Suspends-Fraternity-Over-Racial-Insults
Student Guilty of Assaulting Frat Brother: http://www.newtondailynews.com/2012/05/04/student-guilty-of-assaulting-frat-brother/act87zc/
Fraternity Pledges Sued Over Hazing Death: http://www.courthousenews.com/2012/05/09/46349.htm
BU students face fines, charges in court for AEPi hazing: http://dailyfreepress.com/2012/06/27/bu-students-face-fines-charges-in-court-for-aepi-hazing/
Hazing Investigation sparked from sorority discontinuations: http://www.dailynebraskan.com/news/hazing-investigation-sparked-from-sorority-discontinuations-1.2753060
Miami U. Fraternity Suspended for Use of Fireworks, Drugs: http://www.onntv.com/content/stories/2012/08/23/story-miami-frat-suspended.html
Students arrested at fraternity, house may face University penalties: http://www.purdueexponent.org/campus/article_20f45920-be37-5424-8812-1ec6edbbbaab.html
Fresno State student dies after night of drinking at Theta Chi house: http://www.fresnobee.com/2012/09/02/2975530/fresno-state-student-dies-after.html
Fraternity suspensions overcrowd housing: http://www.miamistudent.net/news/fraternity-suspensions-overcrowd-housing-1.2896866
UNC: Bid day racism is not to be taken lightly: http://www.dailytarheel.com/article/2012/09/bid-day-racism-is-not-to-be-taken-lightly
Ex-Clemson director stole $33K from Greek Life funds: http://www.foxcarolina.com/story/19546009/ex-director-clemson-greek-life-stole-33k-from
Fraternity system investigating 9 reports of hazing: http://www.dailytarheel.com/article/2012/09/fraternity-system-investigating-9-reports-of-hazing
Fraternity can be sued in fatal Yale crash: http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/2012/09/19/court-fraternity-can-sued-fatal-yale-crash/VNHoL1QNFEOup5Q47DtdIK/story.html
Alleged alcohol abuse at UT Fraternity chapter nets citations, investigation: http://www.knoxnews.com/news/2012/sep/26/alleged-alcohol-abuse-at-ut-fraternity-chapter/?partner=yahoo_feeds
ZTA apologizes for fiesta theme party at U. Texas: http://www.dailytexanonline.com/blogs/the-update/2012/09/25/sorority-issues-apology-for-fiesta-themed-party
U. Iowa SAE closed following history of hazing: http://www.kcrg.com/news/local/Suspended-Univ-of-Iowa-Fraternity-Had-Previous-Reports-of-Hazing-171260811.html
Former VSU student files hazing lawsuit against Phi Beta Sigma: http://progress-index.com/news/former-vsu-students-files-hazing-lawsuit-1.1381350
Mother of ECU Delta Sigma Theta member sues over death: http://www.wral.com/news/education/story/11612863/
Federal Lawsuit says Wesleyan Failed to Protect Woman from Assault at Beta House: http://www.courant.com/news/connecticut/hc-wesleyan-rape-lawsuit-1006-20121005%2c0%2c3582503.story
U. Alabama’s Alleged Culture of Hazing: http://cw.ua.edu/2012/10/09/anonymous-letter-calls-for-overhaul-of-greek-life/
Grand Jury issues indictments in Jacksonville St. U Alpha Phi Alpha Hazing: http://www.jaxnews.com/view/full_story/20658910/article-Grand-jury-issues-indictments-in-JSU-hazing
Chico State suspends all fraternities and sororities: http://www.chicoer.com/rss/ci_22009331?source=rss
NIU PIKE pledge died after Fraternity Hazing Event: http://www.myfoxchicago.com/story/20162341/exclusive-investigation-niu-student-died-after-fraternity-hazing-event?clienttype=printable#ixzz2D5FAatC6
Trinity Forcing Fraternities, Sororities to go CoEd: http://www.courant.com/news/connecticut/hc-trinity-frats-coed-20121124%2c0%2c1787992.story
Penn State Chi Omega under investigation for inappropriate photo: http://www.collegian.psu.edu/archive/2012/12/04/chi_omega_under_investigation_for_innapropriate_photo.aspx
U. Kansas Beta Theta Pi suspended after turkey allegedly abused, killed at party: http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2012/12/19/16023118-university-of-kansas-fraternity-suspended-after-turkey-allegedly-abused
What is alarming is that these are the articles I saved. I know there are more that I missed or didn't save simply because I didn't want to read any more negative news. Another alarming reality. I didn't post any negative pictures. Social media has really challenged our fraternal members to make good choices and unfortunately, some are not making the best decisions. So, as we begin 2013, let us remember that we have work to do. Let us also remember to learn from these mistakes.
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
AFA Bylaw Change
After an engaging Twitter chat on Wednesday, December 5th, I wanted to provide a space for individuals to understand the differing viewpoints pertaining to the AFA Bylaw change. I have broken it down into sections to hopefully make the Bylaw change easy to understand. I invite anyone to write in the comment section if you have anything further to add.
The Background:
Before we get to the actual proposed change, it is important to understand what the current AFA Bylaws state. See the current Bylaws here: BYLAWS Specifically, Article III which articulates Membership in AFA. As you will read, only three (3) of the five (5) current membership classes are eligible to hold appointed or elected positions. This is important when the discussion of inclusion is brought up but we will get to that later.
I think it is also important to highlight that the current (outgoing) board has six (6) individuals who serve in a campus-based professional capacity and one individual who serves in a Headquarter staff capacity. The incoming board will have six (6) individuals who serve in a campus-based professional and one individual who serves in a Headquarters staff capacity.
The Proposed Change:
Now, onto the current, proposed Bylaw change. The petition proposes to change the following Association of Fraternity/Sorority Advisors (AFA) Bylaw by removing the stipulation that only campus-based Professional, Graduate or Emeritus members shall serve as President of the Association.
Current Bylaw: Article V, B, 1:
Each officer shall be a Professional, Graduate or Emeritus member during his or her term of office. The President-Elect and President shall be employed or enrolled in a graduate program at a college or university during their terms of office.
Proposed Bylaw: Article V, B, 1:
Each officer shall be a Professional, Graduate or Emeritus member during his or her term of office.
The PURPOSE of the change was to create equality among those within a single membership category.
The Differing Viewpoints:
Those in FAVOR:
Individuals who are voting in FAVOR of the proposed change believe that the leaders of AFA, regardless of position, should not be limited to campus-based professionals. As one person wrote in the Twitter chat, “It’s about qualified candidates being able to run and the membership being able to choose who they want to elect regardless of where they work.” It is also important to re-read the purpose of this change above, “within a single membership category.”
Those who OPPOSE:
Individuals who are NOT in favor of the proposed change believe that if the Bylaw is highlighting inclusion, why not allow ALL members to be able to run for President. As one person in the Twitter chat wrote, “I remain opposed because I want to guarantee that there is a voice for campus-based professionals among all the other umbrella groups.”
Vote Impact:
If the Vote Passes:
Individuals who do not work as a campus-based professional would be able to serve ANY leadership position within AFA’s Executive Board, including President-Elect and President. However, concerns about the “voice” of the Association and possible lawsuits that create conflicting interests were brought up in the Twitter chat.
If the Vote Does Not Pass:
If the proposed change is voted down, two issues would be evident. First, in the Bylaws, we would have same membership categories but different benefits. Second, individuals who currently serve on the Executive Board would not be allowed to ever serve in the capacity of President-Elect and President. As one Twitter chat individual wrote, “Not passing this clearly delineates that the Association does not view all professional members as equal partners in working with issues.”
The Gray Area:
In following the Twitter chat, there were two issues that became very apparent – inclusion and the Nominations and Elections Committee (NEC).
To address the inclusion piece, if you want ALL membership classifications to be equal, that would require a Bylaw change that is currently not part of the current proposed Bylaw change. Specifically, Affiliate and Vendor membership classifications would need to be revised to state that those members would, “Be able to hold appointed AND elected position.” Another point to consider is that if this proposal is voted down, are we being inclusive of who can hold the highest leadership position(s) in our Association?
Moving forward, if you have an issue with inclusion, you would either need to contact the person who proposed the Bylaw change and ask them to rescind the proposed change and create a new proposal OR you would simply vote no on the proposal. I guess you could also vote yes and then ask to revise or edit the current, proposed change.
To address the NEC concerns, I feel that is a chat for another day. However, in my opinion, I think people are frustrated with the NEC process. Specifically, there are candidates that are running un-opposed to leadership positions and voting members are asking why. I don’t think it’s so much the vetting process, but moreover, voting members want to see their options. Sure, there may be a “best” candidate but what about the other eligible candidates? As one individual in the Twitter chat wrote, “Transparency is the key to success of the NEC, boosting confidence in the process from stakeholders.”
Conclusion:
In closing, this is my interpretation of what I’ve heard both at the Annual Meeting as well as the Twitter Chat. If I inaccurately portrayed a viewpoint, leave a comment below. I think it is also important to state that if this proposed change passes, doesn’t mean someone other than a campus-based professional will ever serve as the President-Elect or President, it just allows them the opportunity for them to serve in that capacity. It removes a barrier and puts the decision in the hands of the NEC and membership.
As far as the future of the Association, if you have questions, ask. If you want to have a conversation, create a setting. Challenge the leadership. We preach the mentality of “not being a bystander” so don’t be one. I personally felt like I wanted to hear more about this conversation which is why the Twitter chat was created.
I hope this helps.
Sunday, December 2, 2012
AFA Annual Meeting in Funny Tweets
Overheard in Indy baggage claim: "Well, the fastest way to piss off NPC is to say something true."And, so it begins. #AFAAM
— T.J. Sullivan (@TJatCAMPUSPEAK) November 26, 2012
So. Much. Packet. Stuffing. So. Many. Papercuts. #AFAAM #gradstaff
— Phil Bennett (@PhilipRay88) November 27, 2012
#AFAAM the Canadian Tux is officially here! yfrog.com/nym9iesj
— Brandon Cutler (@bcuttisu) November 27, 2012
Last year I was asking @liz_theboss to pack me in her bags, but this year I'm packing my own. #soexcited #Afaam
— Kaitlin (@Klogan90) November 28, 2012
Is it Awesome or Sad that I find it easier to buy new clothes then wash, dry, iron the old? I say awesome! Ready for #AFAAM
— David Stetter (@DStett617) November 28, 2012
Heard that the dress code for #AFAAM is super bougie - where I'm from the less dressed up you are the higher up you are on the totem pole!
— Torry B-B (@TorryBruce) November 28, 2012
Overheard HQ Exec and campus-based Greek advisor about a chapter "do we have an issue?" "no, we don't have an issue, we're friends" #afaam
— Amy Vojta (@agdgreekgirl) November 28, 2012
When a speaker steps off of the stage and out of lights and line of sight, it's like listening to a podcast. Go toward the light! #AFAAM
— T.J. Sullivan (@TJatCAMPUSPEAK) November 29, 2012
If they would have sold tickets to the Ending pledging session they would have scalpers outside it's so packed in here. #AFAAM
— Kevin Saberre Jr(@revsaberre) November 29, 2012
In the session, Ending Pledging as We Know It, about Cornell University with what seems to be half of #afaam. #firecodeviolation
— Justin Sipes (@J_Sipes) November 29, 2012
Listening to @responseability bring it (as an 8th grade drum major) at #AFAAM - great stuff!
— samdavidson (@samdavidson) November 29, 2012
"If u had a beach house in cape cod would u let 60 20yr olds stay 4a week unsupervised? No. Why do we let it happen in fraternities?" #afaam
— Matthew Kurz (@MatthewJKurz) November 29, 2012
"@tcs228: @noahborton Required service, or "Mandatory Volunteering" is an oxymoron #AFAAM" agreed whats the point
— Tara Leigh Sands (@taraleigh_sands) November 29, 2012
On my lunch break at #AFAAM 2012 I saw Paula Deen, made my day! #Butter #HeyY'all twitter.com/VinnyWoods/sta…
— Vincent Woods (@VinnyWoods) November 29, 2012
"Don't go into the chapter house and say, 'Hey Y'all, I'm here, give me a tour'.That's not fun!" @havaleh #alumnifail #afaam
— Chris Blackburn (@chrsblckbrn) November 29, 2012
Quote of the day - I got a Mac so that I can look cooler when I go to Starbucks. Lol. #AFAAM
— Christopher Maxwell (@CrMaxwell) November 29, 2012
FSL, a endless game of Whack-a-Mole? Great analogy. @danwrona #afaam
— T.J. Sullivan (@TJatCAMPUSPEAK) November 29, 2012
"The Green Book is not biblical, it's a word document!" #AFAAM
— Steve Backer (@stevewithaph) November 29, 2012
Favorite #afaam social moment: educating other professionals on #Idaho; holy cows, river of no return, potato fields, Palouse, snow
— Jordyn Wright (@JordynCWright) November 30, 2012
Only at #AFAAM will you say "Im going to bed" twenty times before you actually make it out of the lobby
— Nicki Croly (@NickiCroly) November 30, 2012
Don't mind me. I'm just being awwwwkward...
— Stefania Rudd (@StefaniaRudd) November 30, 2012
Just want to see myself on the screen at #OnlineEngagment #AFAAM #selfishtweet
— Michael Marino (@michaeldmarino) November 30, 2012
I FOUND THE LEGO SESSION! My life is complete. #AFAAM #AFALeader
— Teena Reasoner (@TeenaReasoner) November 30, 2012
It's Friday, Friday, @afa1976's gettin' down on Friday. #AFAAM's looking forward to the banquet. Fraternity, sorority, YEAH.
— Phil Bennett (@PhilipRay88) November 30, 2012
#AFAAM "if we keep focusing on the apples, and not the barrel"... how do we expect the apples to get any better? #306
— Laura Whitney (@_LauraWhitney_) November 30, 2012
We have to engage parents in working on higher ed issues in the political arena.parents as partners, not plaintiffs!#afaam
— Amy Vojta (@agdgreekgirl) November 30, 2012
We may or may not have free cookies at the Behind Closed Doors presentation in room 314 at #AFAAM - we don't, but come anyway.
— Vince Bowhay (@VinceVassup) November 30, 2012
If you tried to get into the three fires presentation you are out of luck. I might sell my seat for profit. #packed #AFAAM
— Kevin Saberre Jr(@revsaberre) November 30, 2012
Stop viewing assessment as a dirty word, think of it as evidence based decision making. #AFAAM
— Liz Snider (@esnider10) November 30, 2012
"We aren't advocating for these sparkly unicorns, we are advocating for us." @jesspettitt #AFAAM #AFALeader
— Aubrey Ramsey (@amram18) November 30, 2012
New item at #AFAAM silent auction: naming rights for @david_stollman twins. Bid high. Moishe and Inigo current leaders.
— T.J. Sullivan (@TJatCAMPUSPEAK) November 30, 2012
Please feel free to eat your cupcakes during the ugly cry you have during the @stjude presentation. #afaam
— T.J. Sullivan (@TJatCAMPUSPEAK) November 30, 2012
Best part of having #afaam here--no table spanx. Leg room is abundant
— Emily Perrin Britt (@epbritt) November 30, 2012
Woman was sitting at our table, changed her mind and moved. Took a cupcake with her. Where is the values congruence? #AFAAM
— T.J. Sullivan (@TJatCAMPUSPEAK) November 30, 2012
What did my lunch table discover today? @jchager566 is the Kevin Bacon of #AFAAM, as in the seven degrees of Kevin Bacon.
— Carson Lance (@carsonlance) November 30, 2012
You thought AFA was a rowdy bunch?Just wait for the sugar rush!#afaam #lovemesomecupcake
— Amy Vojta (@agdgreekgirl) November 30, 2012
Seems 2 B cupcake shortage at our table - note wrappers location @shtober = #cupcakeburglar #afaam @crystel_m @lmnb twitter.com/KZem1227/statu…
— Kate Zemek (@KZem1227) November 30, 2012
And a piece for Regina George #afaam
— Amy Vojta (@agdgreekgirl) November 30, 2012
#AFAAM is like a G6 ... #clubafa
— Heather Kirk (@hmk0618) November 30, 2012
@afa1976 my table requests Gangum Style @ somepoint #AFAAM
— Rick Burt (@RBurt29) November 30, 2012
This awards luncheon is devolving in to a rave... First special cupcakes, now house music and a light show... Where's my #AFAAM pacifier?
— cbw (@AZcbw) November 30, 2012
This luncheon is super live with this club music. I'm a little overdressed. #AFAAM @afa1976
— Nathan Bunch (@TowerAndTorch) November 30, 2012
Why do some award winners get music and others don't? I demand Bieber for all!!! #AFAam
— Stefania Rudd (@StefaniaRudd) November 30, 2012
Remember,all extra cupcakes should be brought to the Foundation tables at the front of the room.#afaam #beingachairhasperks
— Amy Vojta (@agdgreekgirl) November 30, 2012
Both states that legalized marijuana are in @afa1976 Region 5. Just sayin'. #afaam
— T.J. Sullivan (@TJatCAMPUSPEAK) November 30, 2012
My AFA Region kicks your Region's ass #afaam
— Amy Vojta (@agdgreekgirl) November 30, 2012
Quote of #AFAAM Region 3 meeting as @libbysassypants received her 15 yr. membership certificate "you're celebrating your quinceanera"
— Amber Huston (@asahuston) November 30, 2012
"We're having a case study competition at SEIFC bc we'd love to hear what southern men think the solutions to their problems are" #AFAAM
— Tricia Cesarino (@TriciaCesarino) November 30, 2012
If your dog is as pretty as me, it needs an argyle sweater ...Found in our medium dog basket at #AFAAM Silent Auction twitter.com/missmayapup/st…
— mayapup (@missmayapup) November 30, 2012
Need tips on how to keep my name tag facing the right way #afaam twitter.com/tjelke/status/…
— Tom Jelke (@tjelke) November 30, 2012
Watching people get caught in the revolving door at the JWMarriott is funny but makes me so nervous! #anxiety #AFAAM
— Liz Snider (@esnider10) November 30, 2012
Can we get these half pound meatballs for @nstanglein to play with? Oh wait I mean eat? #famdinafa
— BkIsbell(@BMKIsbell) December 1, 2012
Still never understood why folks walk into sessions 5 mins late then get visibly and vocal upset there are no seats #AFAAM #naspa #acuhoi
— Torry B-B (@TorryBruce) December 1, 2012
RT #AFAAM @leadershipfreak: Using the term “authentic” doesn't make you authentic any more than sleeping in a garage makes you a car.
— Allison J. Foster (@fostera) December 1, 2012
I love a session about change from someone who has difficulty with PowerPoint. #AFAAM
— Jason Paul Gomez (@jasonpaulgomez) December 1, 2012
#AFAAM get your anthropologist on, like Donkey Kong #snaps
— Andy Robison (@robisonandy) December 1, 2012
Snacks at the AFA Business Meeting? #afaam #freepizza instagr.am/p/StAPB7wWFl/
— Kyle A. Pendleton (@BuckeyeKap) December 1, 2012
Omg we need clickers for this businessmeeting. #AFAAM
— BkIsbell(@BMKIsbell) December 1, 2012
@agdgreekgirl fraternal advocate by day, amateur child birthday party magician by night. #AFAAM @afa1976
— Nathan Bunch (@TowerAndTorch) December 1, 2012
So much snapping at the #AFAAM Business Meeting. #snappyadvisors
— Phil Bennett (@PhilipRay88) December 1, 2012
I propose we decide this with a dance off between Gentry McCreary and Dan Bureau#afaam
— Megan Janasiewicz (@meganjoj) December 1, 2012
Why's it gotta be the right hand? What about the left hand? #leftyissues #AFAAM sad face
— Thomas Whitcher (@tdub_ca) December 1, 2012
Alarms should ring any time we hear @afa1976 trying to sound like another Interfraternal group rather than a higher Ed association. #AFAAM
— Rick Barnes (@Barnesspeaks) December 1, 2012
@karasmil @travisapgar I'm excited to serve on the 2013 NEC. We are serving sacred cow for lunch at our meetings. #AFAAM
— T.J. Sullivan (@TJatCAMPUSPEAK) December 1, 2012
It feels like Black Friday outside the Closing Banquet doors! @afa1976#AFAAM #Whoa
— Jen Miranda (@missjenmiranda) December 1, 2012
Awkward Family Photo @timwilkinson79 @rldavison @dgrzesik @ashleybaudouin @veronicamhunter #AFAAM twitter.com/JessiMcPherrin…
— Jessi McPherrin (@JessiMcPherrin) December 2, 2012
Journey sing-a-long #closingbanquet #AFAAM
— Lynsy Yoder (@lynsyrenay) December 2, 2012
That is one sexy cup of coffee. @novaktalks #ifilove #afaam
— Matthew C. Nance (@matthewcnance) December 2, 2012
It's weird seeing the Starbucks at @jwmarriottindy so empty this afternoon! #AFAAM twitter.com/LeannaLaskey/s…
— Leanna Laskey (@LeannaLaskey) December 2, 2012
Things learned at #afaam - I learned that @paypal is a great way to immediately make good on a bet you lost to @mikemcree. #imamanofmyword
— Jason Bergeron (@jtbergeron) December 3, 2012
Now that #AFAAM is over, I need to catch up on a week's worth of sleep.
— Scott Isenga (@ScottIsenga) December 3, 2012
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Social Media Roulette
As I stated above, when done right social media can elevate the presence of an organization, drive engagement and really create a movement for a campus, a chapter or a National organization. So, make sure you are using social media correctly and for my professional friends, you are using social media as a learning experience for the students. The social media world moves fast and we need to keep on top of it with our education and knowledge.
Sunday, September 23, 2012
Hazing: Changing your Perspective
Another aspect that is often neglected when we talk about hazing is the science behind the behavior. Take these 3 pieces of information as an example:
-61% of males, 52% of females experience hazing in college (Allan & Madden, 2008)
- And they perceive a social crisis as a threat to their very existence because, on a neural level, “our brains react to peer exclusion much as they respond to threats to physical health or food supply.” (National Geographic article Teenage Brains)
-Psychologists believe the human mind has two systems for decision-making: intuitive and reasoning. The intuitive system is emotional, fast, automatic but slow-learning, while the reasoning system is emotionally-neutral, slow, controlled, and rule-governed. Neither, of course, is always right, but there are certain simple problems that reveal flaws in intuition.
A classic example that Kahneman has often used in lectures is this math problem: A bat and a ball together cost $1.10. The bat costs a dollar more than the ball. How much does the ball cost?
Your intuitive system may quickly tell you that the ball costs 10 cents. That would be an easy solution, but it would also be incorrect. In fact, if the ball costs 10 cents, that would mean the bat costs $1.10, so the two together would be $1.20 -- violating the first piece of information you had. A little algebra, or a little more thought, reveals that the ball must have cost 5 cents. Oops. (CNN article)
If you are like me, these 3 statements and information fascinate you. Why are more males than females experiencing hazing based on the study of Allan & Madden? How should we interpret the information provided in the National Geographic article Teenage Brains when it comes to students feeling neglected by their peers or facing a social crisis? Finally, what should we make of the CNN article and how the human mind processes decision-making with two different systems? How many of you failed to get the ball cost correctly?
We need more scientific data on hazing behavior. We can measure how alcohol affects the brain and decision-making but we haven’t been able to do the same. The Allen & Madden study is a start but now we must ask, “now what.” These are the conversations that should be had at National Headquarters meetings. At AFA, AFLV, SEIFC, SEPC, etc. These conversations should be occurring on college campuses nationwide. It’s not enough to highlight the statistics, we need to process the statistics and build our prevention methods off of this information.
Conclusion:
National Hazing Prevention Week begins on Sept. 24th and now is the time to open up your doors, get people to the table and start having genuine, real conversations. We must learn to create prevention activities that are designed to increase learning and change behavior. If the behavior doesn’t change, the activities are ineffective.
Finally, we need to take a step back and look at hazing from the hazer’s perspective. Yes, it may get ugly and yes, we may never understand their rationale but we as professionals, volunteers and fellow individuals, must do so because it is necessary. Necessary so that we can never read another hazing tragedy again.
References:
1. Hazing in View - Study by Allen & Madden: http://www.hazingstudy.org/publications/hazing_in_view_web.pdf (2008)
2. National Geographic - Teenage Brains: http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/2011/10/teenage-brains/dobbs-text (2011)
3. Why Your Brain Can't Always Make Good Decisions - CNN Article: http://articles.cnn.com/2009-01-12/health/decision.making_1_ball-costs-bad-decisions-reasoning-system?_s=PM:HEALTH


